Tuesday, April 29, 2014

3 Ways an Ordinary Mama Can Say "Yes" (and a giveaway)

Giveaway has ended... and the winners are Amy and Kristin!  Enjoy this wonderful read, girls! 


(...which also could be titled as “Ways the Lord is Working on my Heart”) :) :) 


Last week I blogged about a great book I’ve been reading called Rhinestone Jesus, written by Kristen Welch.  This book is about to hit store shelves, and you will want it.  Ever since I finished reading it, I’ve been contemplating its message.  This idea of being willing to say “yes” to Jesus, no matter what that means.  In the big, in the small, and in the not so pretty.   You see, I’m just an ordinary mama, with no major ministries going on or maternity homes across the ocean that I’m trying to build, and that means I could easily dismiss Kristen’s story in this book because it’s not mine. 

But I’d be missing the point of the entire book.  You see, no matter where we are in life, we are being called.  Called to offer our “yes” to a Father who knows what is best for His children when we don’t have a clue what tomorrow may bring.  And that’s a really scary thing sometimes.   In the midst of my own life mess right now, these three areas have stuck out to me as ways He's calling me to offer my “yes”:

My time.  Oh, my time is so precious to me these days.  My time… that time when there is nothing that must be done and no one asking anything of me.  That’s because that kind of time rarely ever comes.   And when it does, I often want to be selfish with it.  I may refuse to spend time with someone who is hurting because I need some “me time,” refuse to play a game with my kids because I finally have the time to pick up a book I’ve been waiting to read,  or sleep in a little longer instead of waking up early enough to have some quality prayer time before the kiddos are roused. 

When I say “yes” to Jesus, I let Him direct my time.  And if my day ends up looking a whole lot different than what I planned but I look back at the end of it knowing Jesus was the one who directed it, than I can trust Him to also bring me the nourishment and down time He knows I need to keep functioning well.

My talents.  The Lord has given us all gifts and abilities, and sometimes, I want to use my unique giftings for my own purposes.  I want to rush opportunities and make them happen before God’s timing and fulfillment, or in different ways than He’d like.  Or, I want to ignore where I’ve been gifted and waste my time doing other things, instead of using it to refine my gifts and use them where I’ve been planted. 

When I say “yes” to Jesus, I give my talents back to Him for Him to use as He sees fit.  I choose not to get frustrated when it’s not the right timing to use them, or He uses them in a way that I may not have chosen.  And when He does choose to use them in ways that get me way out of my comfort zone, I am willing to "do it scared," as Beth Moore says.

 My treasure.  A lot of people define this as their money, and rightly so, because the Bible says that “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  So I take it a step further and pretty much sum up my treasure as everything I hold precious in my heart – including my desires, hopes and dreams. 

And when I say “yes” to Jesus, I choose to trust Him with my heart.  I choose to believe that He sees where I am broken, and is working to mend me in a more beautiful way than I can imagine, even when I can’t see anything but scars.  I choose to place all of my desires, hopes and dreams in His hands and let Him do with them whatever He wants. 



Much easier said than done, isn’t it?  That’s why I needed this book, and I believe every other woman does too.  I am one weak woman, fully dependent on the Lord and always needing to rely on His grace and strength to help me in my mess each and every day.  But when you read someone else’s story of saying “yes” and it’s presented as beautifully as Kristen’s, doesn’t it make you long to say “yes” more often?  And don’t you feel a little braver when you know that others around you have been willing to say “yes” too? 



Rhinestone Jesus officially releases on May 1st of this week, but I’m so excited that I have two copies to give away here on my blog!  Just leave a comment sharing something pertaining to your own “yes” story by 11:59 p.m. on Thursday, May 1st, and I’ll draw two winners on Friday!  
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10 comments:

Anonymous said...

So needed to hear this. Even though I no longer have children at home for they are married and have children of their own I'm so selfish with my "me time" . There are days when I get home from work I don't even want to answer the phone or on my day off and my husband is working I only want to do something for me. I so need to say "yes" to Jesus at those "me times" I think I would feel better about myself If I knew I was doing what GOD wanted me to do and not what I wanted to do.

Amy said...

(I just typed out a long comment but I think it disappeared so here it goes again!) I am so right there with you on saying yes in the middle of my "me time". I really struggle with that. I often feel so justified in enjoying those rare moments and have become so selfish over protecting them. The Lord is so patiently and lovingly teaching me to offer those moments to Him and be willing to say yes even when I feel justified in saying no. So much easier said than done.

Becky said...

Needing to say a "yes" to many things that I delay due to procrastination. I will pick the one of intentionally sending a note to someone each week.

bekah brinkley said...

Goodness what a great reminder! My time is my most valuable resource because I simply cannot make more. As a result, feeling like my time is wasted is a hot button for me and this was a great reminder to say "yes" to Jesus especially when it goes against the way I envision spending my time. Thanks friend!

Elizabeth Webb said...

Needed this! After long days I am so desperate for me time that I am saying "No" to the things God may have called me to.

Melissa P said...

Oh friend- what a timely post. My heart is so selfish, especially when it comes to "my time." My yes to Jesus needs to be so ready and willing, even when it doesn't look like I think it should. Thanks for sharing- much love!

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Kari said...

Thanks for the great post, Christy. You bless my heart with your openness and honesty. I would have to say that I need to say 'yes' more to giving my time to others when they need me. It's easy to be selfish with it.

kristin said...

I admire your heart Christie. Your love for Jesus and desire to follow Him wholeheartedly is a blessing…it is both an encouragement and challenge to me. If this book has spurred you on in deepening your walk of obedience and trust in HIS plan for your life, I'd love to be challenged by it too!!
It's easy to let the busyness of my life be an excuse to delay in reaching out and ministering to someone else. My pastor reminded me I'm not a lake - to accept comfort from others/the Word just to stay there and be comfortable…and stagnant. Rather, a river that takes that encouragement and passes it to someone else along down the way. The body of Christ in action is a beautiful thing! Choosing to be an active member isn't always easy, but I know it is worth it, I know HE is WORTH it!!
Thanks friend, for ministering to others wounds through your scars!

Anonymous said...

My yes has been to to put down the phone and say yes to spending more time with my husband. He seems to be the one who gets left out the most. Having two small children takes up most of my time. So I am putting more intentional effort into our marriage.